Sooner or later in the life of a couple there comes a period when both realize that bed life is boring, and no longer gives half of the former pleasure.
Looking for solace on the side is not the right thing to do. It is worth trying to establish an intimate relationship with your loved one. Fortunately, in our time there are 1000 and 1 ways to do this.
Do you know your mate?
Are you sure you’ve studied your husband/wife down to the last mole, that you know everything he will want and think about? Forget everything you know! Imagine that you and he are just getting to know each other sexually. Act differently, not the way you’re used to. Then you’ll see how your partner reveals himself or herself in a new way.
Take advantage of technology
Come up with the idea of adding someone third in intimacy, but you can’t find someone who would fit the role? Or the thought warms your soul, but you don’t have the courage to carry out the plan? Buy or rent a special virtual reality helmet with adult porn content.
Look in a sex shop
Adult supply stores are brimming with porno-enhancers. Everyone can find something for themselves. Walk with a partner in a sex shop or two, buy a few toys that came to your liking, and sex life will play with new colors. Do not forget that the goods such stores – not just for women. Forget the shyness and immerse yourself in pleasure.
Porn movies – yes!
Pornography is a great way to awaken your fantasies. Watch a movie together and discuss it afterwards. Or better yet, try it out on each other. It’s quite possible that everyone will find a new source of excitement for themselves. Just choose a category of film that you both find attractive.
Massage is a wonderful means of relaxation in itself. And if it’s done by someone naked and aroused, anyone will succumb to the erotic vibe. Mastering nude massage is easy. Anyone can do it. Even if you have a very general idea of massage. The most important thing is to feel your partner. All you have to do is get the right gel, and off you go!
Is that a prohibition?
Revisit topics in sex that used to be off-limits. Maybe you should give some of them the green light.
After all, the conquest of the unknown and forbidden is very exciting… It’s very likely that you and your partner will find a few more erogenous zones and discover a source of pleasure that you were afraid to even think about before.